Discussion Guide

While the message of the book seems simple, there are larger issues that can be discussed when reading the book. We suggest printing out this page.

Points for Family or Group Discussion

• Growing is good for a Christmas tree and for a person. What does it mean to grow?
• What makes you happy?
• Trimmer and tree shapers are important to a tree's growth. Who shapes or shaped your life?
• Being trimmed and shaped can be a bit frightening. Are you afraid when faced with that prospect? Have you grown "straighter and better" for having been "trimmed and shaped" in your life?
• The little tree learned by listening to the other trees. Have you learned by listening to others older than yourself?
• What are the stories told by your family? What are your family's traditions?
• The tree calls to her creator. Is prayer part of your life?
• What did you think you would be when you grew up? Did you have other gifts that allowed you to take a different path? What other possibilities might there be for you?
• What are your personal gifts?
• A rooted tree cannot be pulled out by hand. What does it mean to be rooted in life? ...in your family? ...in our world?
• The miracle of life is our ability to appreciate the here and now. Do you think about today or do you worry about the past and the future?
• What is the miracle of Christmas for you?
• Can you list several things that you are most grateful for?
• What are some things that you appreciate most in your life?